Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Few questions 2 bother!

Thr r so many questions arising in my mind...
Y r ppl like this?
Y does every1wants everything 2 happen their own way?
Y does bloody every Indian parent want their kids 2 be rank holders?
Y d hell r ppl competing wid 1-another?
Y is tat d bloody currency notes r given more importance than d man possessing it?
Y r ppl greedy wen Maa has given her kids everything in abundance? Rather she doesn't knw 2 give less!
Y do ppl juz get carried away by d artificiality of things?
Wat makes ppl miss out d real beauty in a thing?
Y r HER kids so narrow-minded, wen Maa is so broad-hearted?
Y r HER children d way I've seen?
Wat do u think is d reason tat Maa created every1 uniquely? Even twins born at d same time frm d same womb r different in nature!
Wateva maybe d reason, y don't HER kids realize tat?
Y does every1 want 2 be d same?
Getting a MBA degree, becoming a technocrat, doctor, rank-holder, CEO... Y can't ppl think beyond this?
My dear readers, juz think, y can't ppl think unique, creatively inspite of being given a unique body, brain? This is juz like u give different inputs 2 different experiments but still u get d same output!!! Am i going into deep psychology? V r all gonna be revolutionaries, these r juz d sparks which ll ignite minds n tat ignition will set this world right! I want my readers 2 learn abt d essence of life! Life is not juz abt doing something, getting appreciation frm others... frm others, here, i mean those idiots who did nothing all their life n r alive 2 juz pass comments on ppl who did atleast something gud. God shd bless those "others"!
Instead life is all abt discovering urself, ur interests. Note here, its UR interests. Then spending all ur life mastering, further polishing n being on a pursuit of attaining perfection on wat v hav interest. So tat at d time of death, 1 can feel happy, take a breathe filled wid satisfaction n thank Maa 4 giving such a beautiful life n such a beautiful playgrnd!
All this seems 2 be nice heard n said, vry few hav d guts 2 ponder over it n act. Lemme share wid u 1 more fact. If i show this piece of writing 2 my parents, I knw wat they ll say. They ll say, "All this is fine, but u wasted ur time writing all this. This wasted time cud hav been utilized if u had studied ur syllabus, u wud hav scored more n wud hav got a better job!" This dialogue they uttered without thinking seems 2 me like a scolding! Its vry natural 4 them if they react in this way, coz they grew up playing in a bounded playground like a fish in a well. Whreva they turned their faces, they saw a huge wall in front of them. They were not so fortunate 2 hav read this at a tender age wen our activities doesn't become habits. They juz acted thinking abt wat tat person wud say or wat this person wud say if i act tat way or this way, ultimately did ntn, juz thought n tat too wat others wud feel/think!
But i don't think this 2 be a topic of thouht at all. Did mother nature provide us wid a finite playgrnd 2 play our games of life?
Did she eva enforced any rules n regulations 4 d game of life?
Then who r those ppl who tell us 2 do things as they like?
Think unique, Do unique n thus, BE unique! But everything wid love n compassion 2wards 1 n all....

ThanQ

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Don't juz think, feel b4 u act!

Few ppl take their lives 4 granted. If they took their lives 4 granted, it wud hav been better, coz atleast it is under their control 2 a certain extent, but they take others also 4 granted!!! Now, here is whr things go wrong. People don't stand in other's shoes n think twice b4 they act. They juz hav an attitude tat this world is infinite, if this person is lost, some1 else wud fill d void so caused. Here, their thought process comes 2 an end. But I wish 2 slightly extend this thinking process & want ppl 2 think abt d intensity of damage n harm tat particular person may cause who is going 2 create a void. This funda can also be explained wid d help of solid-state physics. An electron moves out of d atom giving out energy, unless it is forced. I wudn't explain this in much detail as it has less significance wid this article. V neva knw d amt of damage 1 can cause. A person shd neva underestimate any1 4 tat matter... If, 1 fine day, d person who is gonna create tat void turns lunatic, he may even get 2 d extent of making u helpless n hold a gun next 2 ur head n get his work done. And nobody can neva find him, even if found n arrested, he ll be out on bail d vry nxt day... This is d beauty of India, Indian Police, CBI, Indian Constitution!!! U ll be neva given justice n he ll be off, creating tat void which u always wanted! Although its juz a probability abt which I am talking, but thr is always a chance of such cases 2 take place.

At times, some mite hav noticed, I too did... ppl juz ignore some1's plea saying tat "I m busy, kindly turn up a bit later", d language is generally rude at times accompanied by rude tones as well!!! By citing this, I wanna convey tat ppl juz think of themselves & simply cease 2 think, how d person wud feel who heard this & was indirectly ignored. Mind u, this dialogue wud hav been uttered only if d door was knocked gently! Instead, if it was a pistol on his head, then tat dialogue wud hav been, "Yes Sir, Wat do u want me 2 do now?" or ""Sir, wat kind of help do u expect frm me? u ll get full support frm my side." This wud hav been d mouth saying all these. Now take a look at his/her trousers, u ll find them all wet!!! :D
An example... A poor man goes 2 a court 4 legally killing his disabled son. Here d disability is extreme, d boy can't see, can't speak, is mentally retarded, physically challenged. To tat poor man, his son is juz a burden. On approaching a court, they say tat u cannot kill any1 like this legally, coz nxt time some1 else will come wid a similar case. Wat d court said was right, but d panel didn't consider d poor man's condition. They neva had a look at his hut. They neva felt standing in his shoes! This is d way ppl r...
Another case... An indian prisoner had 2 be released frm pakistan. His whole family pleaded 2 d indian as well as pakistani govt 4 d prisoner's release. Tat family consisted of 2 daughters of age 24-25, his old wife! They were all financially weak. The govt had cases of spy against tat prisoner. Even after so much of plea both by d family n by our govt., tat prisoner is yet 2 be released. Several independence n republic days passed by but he s not out free! In this case, pakistani govt. failed 2 understand some1's feelings, how d life of tat old wife n her young children be in ruins... Instead, if it was Ambani inside d jail room of pakistan, he wud hav been released b4 his family requested!!! Rules r rules, i agree, but thr is something called feelings attached 2 every1. Tat shd be considered, understood n above all respected.
This is 1 amongst those many beautiful concepts which i want my readers 2 learn.
By letting out n pointing at such boring n beautiful concepts, I don't mean its impossible 2 achieve a postive attitude as i expect. Rather, if I felt it was impossible , I wud hav not written this piece of shit! Now u may all wonder on why am i calling this shit... Shit coz it lies on d road, almost everywhr u turn ur face(atleast in india) but still ppl don't notice or they juz walk over it, as if manuring their footwear!!! They don't dirty their legs but also destroy d beauty of our indian roads (those lumps of shit here n thr adds beauty 2 our roads!)

Again d above para may seem as if i m adding humour 2 my writing. Haah! U went wrong if u thought so. I was rather serious, seriously making u breath d indian air!!

Now let us come 2 d scene juz b4 d climax of my writing... The Pursuit...
The problem i had described is not caused by an individual, but many. This is d spark 4 many

problems/crimes. So, thr r 2 types of solution 2 this problem:
1) d hard way
2) d soft way
Hard way... ummm... 1 must hav experienced such kinda casual attitude or such ignorance abt which i was talking abt. That experience shd hav made d volcano inside them 2 erupt. Else u shd hav ignored something or some1 n paid a heavy price 4 tat, almost equivalent 2 ur life! But such experiences r got only by chance. If u hav survived all d above, then u hav learnt d lesson i wanted 2 teach!!! Things learnt d hard, ruff n tuff way r neva 4gotten, they remain wid us 4 a lifetime!
Yet thr is another way of learning this, it is by following my words carefully n by reaching d depth of d ocean of feelings till whr i hav taken u. 1 shd not juz learn, but also imbibe such qualities of showing affection, wateva maybe d circumstance. Love n affection will only make this world a better place 2 live in. But i personally don't recommend this kind of learning coz d reader may hav doubts due 2 d imperfection in my writing.
I ll wish tat my readers not juz read my articles, but instead engrave d concepts into d back of their minds & further suggest new & innovative ideas 4 solving such a social problem.

Juz close ur eyes after this n imagine, how this world wud be if every1 arnd u be nice 2 u n understood u at every point in ur life...

Thank You!

Monday, January 12, 2009

This is d way, its defined!!!

Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O, no! it is an ever-fixed mark,
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come;
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me proved,
I never writ, nor no man ever loved.

2-Dimensional poem!!!

Lonely was I,
Until I found you,
Hey dude, you are,
among my true frends- few.

The vibrant hues of rainbow,
The sky so mesmerising blue,
Thrilled to see them thru ur eyes..
Life was so beautiful,
I had no clue.

You showed me the path - right
You showed me the light
You made me wave,
To the past - ADIEU.

I count my blessings,
To have found you
"ARVAM" you are,
among my true frends- few.



Contributed by Mishtu (Naam toh sunaa hii hoga!!!)
I really treasure this contribution!!! :)

To begin with...

B4 writing anything, i wud like 2 dedicate all my works 2 my dearest Amby(if not Amby, i ll specifically mention d person's name)... Thr r few things in life which affects us indirectly, causes more effect than factors affecting us directly... U mite wonder why am i dedicating this blogspot 2 some1 so special yet not so close(apparently), it cud hav been 2 my paa, my maa, my bro, my grandparents... i learn't many things frm them... but learning alone is not enuf, 1 shd dive deep into wat is being learnt by our inner self!!! things shd be realized, added 2 our thought process n finally implemented... everything above mentioned is equally important... n this took place in my life only after i met her... With this meet, i recollected my past learnings n here I compile them expressing my ideologies of sheer love!
So yes, my dear readers... let me introduce u 2 d most boring blog entries u mite hav ever seen on internet... either it ll make u sleep or it ll make u dream but i ve made sure 2 wake u ppl up on time... hahaha... added few alarm clocks here n thr!!!
Ok, now go, hav ur dinner, keep ur pillows n bed ready, turn off ur lights n tensions.................. so, here v go!!!